So... My first husband and I actually went to the same high school together. We started dating when I was 17. We got married when I was 19. I'm 32 now. Our oldest daughter is soon to be 12. Our younger daughter is 9.
I simply am not the girl I was when I was a teenager. I've changed, a lot. I've learned a lot as well. My husband and I grew apart. We get along very amicably and have a working arrangement for our girls.
Lately, I've been feeling the missing part of being a mommy. I know part of it is not seeing my girls as much. Part of it is probably my 30s something biological clock telling me it might be getting too late for me to have anymore children.
Is 12 and 9 too much older for a sibling?
When do you know that having another baby is something you actually want or it's just a wierd hormonal thing going on?
My first husband had a vasectomy. So having more children wasn't an option. But, it's definitely an option now.